Shouldn’t it be the other way around???
“In relationships, most of us are unable to tolerate harmony for very long periods of time.”
That’s what Katie Hendricks said during my radio show on Wednesday. It blew me away!
“Why would harmony be something we would tolerate?” I thought. Shouldn’t we enjoy it and seek it out and once we find it, want to stay in it?
Katie says we’re unable to tolerate harmony for extended periods because we’re so used to conflict. It’s almost like that’s where our set point is and we have to get back to conflict or we start feeling really uncomfortable. (For goodness sake, how screwed up is that?)
That really explains a lot, doesn’t it? About why couples cycle back into dysfunction or unhappiness or old habits that don’t work.
I was fortunate that as an interviewer I got to take a look at Gay and Katie’s program in depth, called The Relationship Solution. Since I have not met my life partner yet, I was so pleased to find that half the program is geared toward singles! I am doing the course right now, and it’s really going to help me be ready to have a lasting, healthy, loving relationship when the right person comes into my life. The Hendrickses have worked with hundreds of couples using these techniques and ideas, from couples on the brink of divorce to newlyweds who want to get started with a strong foundation and they say they’ve seen miracles take place.
Gay and Katie have been happily married for over 30 years. They have been quite transparent about the peaks and valleys their relationship has experienced, but as Katie said on the show, they really are happy.They’ve made conscious loving and conscious living a lifelong study.
You can learn more about their program here. I highly recommend it, whether you have committed to another person or haven’t take that step yet. Here is the link again. This is the brand new digital version of their product, so you can get instant access! http://tinyurl.com/relationshipsolution You can literally be starting toward lasting harmony in your current or future relationship today!
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